DO WE REALLY BORN WITH INSECURITIES OR WE JUST CREATE IT ?

 We had a discussion on this question today in our life skill session at our campus. So many people have different insecurities. Most of it was related to their own body like short height, overweight, teeth alignment, etc. I am wondering how it can be your insecurity. 

What I believe is all this was created by themselves. But, how I am saying this you might be thinking. Let me explain.. If I ask you define a perfect human being. Your answer is simply a human which has two legs and hands and a head, must able to see, hear, walk and eat and all other organs and thing which are working. This could be the best definition for perfect human being. Then still why you feeling insecure, the reason is all are created by you. Let's say suppose you saw a person who has good height you might say he is a perfect. Why you is saying this is because you compared him with yourself, then realized he is taller than you. And you said he has a perfect height . Now what if he compare with a guy who is taller than him. Now does he become imperfect and should that guy need to feel insecure with his height. If you do it continuously and comparing with one another no one can be perfect. Because I believe as long as you able to work, eat , speak, see, hear  properly you are a perfect human being already. But you start comparing, there insecure comes in picture.   I believe every person is different and unique. And has different capabilities. 

Let's take a example and try to understand what i am trying to say. There is fish in water and can swim very well. He is perfect the way he is. He never met any fish and any other animals . So he don't have that comparison with anyone. Now after few year he encounter with a duck and he start comparing himself with that duck. After that he start feeling insecure at many things like that duck is big, as compare to him I am very small and many things.

Now hope you might got what I am trying to say. You only start feeling insecure when you start comparing yourself with other. If we do start this then I think no one in this world is a perfect human being. 

Thank you for reading this hope you got me what I am trying to say.  

Good Night BYEEEEEEEE

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